Or, how did YOU quit smoking?
I would say that one of the easiest ways to quit is to try NLP (neuro linguistic programming). It eradicates the usual problems that are associated with quitting smoking such as cravings, short temper, hunger and weight gain. You can find out more here: http://su.pr/2vX6Ys
Bob's right--you gotta want it, and stay away from nicfit gum and all that BS. I was a 2 pack a day smoker, set my heart on quittin, and named a quit date 4 weeks out. Every drag, I said to myself, "I'm quitting January 9."
The week before, I cut back by half. January 8, I smoked like a mofo--I mean heavy, heavy chain smoking. Woke up January 9, and that was it.
It sucked. A lot. What got me through was knowing that all the nicotine processes out of your body in 72 hours. Count those hours, make it out, then kick your psychological habit. It can be done.
People who quit cold turkey have the highest success rate long term.
If you plan to quit, tell EVERYONE around you of your goals. Ask them to hold you accountable and to help you through this. Take all of your packs and run them down the disposal (makes em harder to find than throwing them in the trash).
Good luck!
As mentioned, the only way to absolutely have success in quitting is to absolutely want to. You have to despise the habit, which is hard since it becomes so entwined with routines and everyday occurrences such as meals, socialization, and boredom.
I would say the one method that I have seen success with in many people is Allen Carr's "The Easy Way to Stop Smoking". I'd highly recommend the audio book version as the best method for implementing his program. If you truly want to quit, this book will re-enforce the reasons you most likely want to quit smoking.
A second method is hypnosis. Google for licensed professionals in your area for a one on one session. The withdrawal from nicotine is very mild, as you sleep 8 hours a night without any need to wake up and have a cigarette. The biggest part of quitting is your mind. This is why some people can just quit cold turkey. They no longer want to smoke, so they don't. A hypnotherapist can help you change the deep seeded mental hooks that you have created about smoking.
Patches, gum, or trying to cut down simply don't work. It literally is mind over matter. Good Luck!
There are two parts to quit: the physical addiction, and the psychological addiction.
First you have to break the physical addiction, which is actually the easier part. When you stop smoking you WILL have nicotine withdrawal for a few days. It will suck, just accept it. Some people like the nicotine patch to help taper off the addiction symptoms, but personally I found the side-effects (nausea, extremely weird vivid dreams) to be worse than the withdrawal. For me it was all or nothing, so I went cold-turkey. After about 2-3 days the nicotine should be out of your system and you're over the physical addiction.
For me, the more difficult aspect was the psychological addiction. The need to have a cigarette in hand, both as an affectation and as a socialization tool. I've often told people "quitting is easy. Staying quit is hard". It was impossible for me to stay quit because my girlfriend at the time was a smoker. With easy access to cigs and temptation just inches away I couldn't resist. The solution came when we split. I vowed to never date a smoker again, and to only socialize with non-smokers. This made "staying quit" a 1000x easier for me, and expect it would for others as well. It might cause some social strains, especially if you have family that smokes, but what's worse: pissing someone off by saying you don't want to hang around them if they are smoking, or dying of lung-cancer?
I used Chantix with great success. I think you still have to have something that motivates you to truly want to quit. For me it was the last hike in price of cigs...I said ENOUGH! I have been a non-smoker for 6 months and love it! I smoked for 17 years. I had no bad side effects from the drug other than having very cool, vivid dreams. Best of luck to you!
Chantix is great, so long as you can deal with the farting, constipation, and wicked dreams. I only had two of the three side effects. It binds to nicotine receptors, so you don't feel the need to smoke as much, and even if you do, it doesn't provide the usual satisfaction/relief.
I quit cold turkey, which worked well for me, but you have to want it. I'd develop a mantra: 95%+ of people who quit without aid relapse in the first year. I'd repeat to myself, if I could prove I'm in that upper fifth percentile, I could debunk any other figures people tend to throw in my face. (such as: 50% of businesses fail in the first year, 95% within five years? I'm better than that!)
It was a silly trick, but it worked for me, and helped motivate me in other parts of my life.
You could kill two birds by getting regular cardio exercise. I've always been into mountain biking, so whenever I started smoking a bit, I felt it big time on the next ride and never wanted to smoke again. If you can find a way to have fun exercising, you're set, and the post workout buzz is better than nicotine anyway.
Cold turkey. No tobacco ever again. No pipes, cigars, cloves, dip, snuff, chew, gum, patches, pills, or water vapor substitues. Not one smoke. Not just a drag. Not even breathing heavy around someone else who is smoking. You have to toughen yourself mentally, and stay that way. It takes around ten years to totally get over smoking.
You absolutely have to make a decision to quit and stick to it. I was a pack a day smoker for 16 years and quit cold turkey at the beginning of June. For the first few days, while my body was in nicotine withdrawal, I tried to sleep as much as possible. To battle the psychological addiction I drank a ton of water and chewed on tea tree oil toothpicks. After about a month I started doing cardio 3-4 times a week and feel better than I have in years.
This is kind of silly, but it might be the single most important thing I did to not relapse: I installed an app on my iPhone called Quitter which tells me how many days it's been since my last cigarette and how much money I've saved. I live in Chicago and a pack of smokes is $8. That dollar figure is a huge daily affirmation to keep on the wagon.
It sounds stupid, but I just quit buying cigarettes. I've told several people about this and they all laugh, but a couple of my friends have been able to quit the same way. I don't hang out with many people who smoke, so there wasn't a lot of temptation to continue or get back into it.
How I quit...
Basically, ever time I wanted a cigarette, I would just make myself cough and cough until I made myself nauseus. I soon psychologically associated "smoking" with "nausea".
The first 3 months was just constant obsessing. "Am I really NEVER going to have a cigarette again?"
Then, at about the 3 month mark, the "not smoking" became the new habit and i didn't think about it anymore.
Even now, if I smell second-hand smoke, I get a bit nauseus.
Cigarette smoking is usually a force of habit for some people, especially when they feel stressed or carefree. The fact that nicotine can be paired so well with coffee, caffeine or alcohol makes it even tougher to quit. Just the very act of smoking becomes addictive, as you feel sophisticated and thuggish all at the same time.
I won't lecture you on what patch to buy or what psycho-babble works, but what I will say is this: only Barack Obama can get away with smoking a cigarette or two a day and still have perfect teeth. This is because he is a public figure and probably has excellent dental work done routinely. To quit smoking, one does have to actually truly desire to do so. One part of that desire should and can stem from the simple fact that you decide to look your best, not your worst, to the world every day. In this instance you should and can be vain.
It can't really be said enough, you have to want to quit. i was feeling increasingly shittier every morning and vowed i would quit everytime i got out of breath going up a flight of stairs. i realized that it would be ten years since i had started so i decided the day after my 26 birthday i would stop. i was staying with my mother who has always been vehemently anti smoking and told her about this. she kept an eye on me to make sure i didn't try to sneak out for one but to be honest, since it had been my decision i was never all that tempted. susre, i missed them, but a lot of it was to see if if i had the strength and discipline to give up. i perhaps didn't quit the healthiest way, i simply replaced one vice with another, sipping a half shot of scotch everytime i felt a craving to smoke. Its now two days short of nine months since then and i have only caved in once, on holiday, drunk out of my skull, i tried some caramel flavoured rolling tobacco that my dive guide was smoking. it felt great, but the feeling in my chest the next morning just served to remind me why i quit in the first place.
Wanting to quit is a start, but you need to learn how to do all the things you missed when you were smoking. You might not know how to deal with stress because you have been smoking instead of finding a nicotine free solution. Believe it or not, you might not even know what it means to feel 'happy' because you are letting the nicotine replace that too. This is addiction. Join Nicotine Anonymous. When you learn you can't smoke even one, you won't even slip if you go out for a drink. 10 years of heavy smoking... nicotine inhaler, gum, nasal spray, patch, Champix/Chantix, Zyban, dip, snuff and even nicotine hand gel... I didn't know how to be me until i tried Nic-A one month ago. It was harder this time than any other time because I dealt with my feelings.
Meetings are conducted online too. Its easy. Try it.
Woah, this is weird. I'm a Ryan Barrett too.
And I agree with ryan barrett, No nicotine is the way to go. No replacements either.
I quit over a year and a half ago. Using Allen Carr's 'The Easy Way to Stop Smoking'. Most libraries have it.
I know at least 5 other people that have read it and quit (none that read and didn't).
I quit in college, which was by no means easy since you're surrounded by it. How I did it? I had an a-hole friend who kept throwing out my packs, even out the car window once while I was driving. It got to the point where I just couldn't afford to keep buying them.
My point is to get your non-smoking friends to help. Most non-smokers are actually anti-smokers so I bet they'd be more than willing to help kill that nicotine addiction.
Also, just avoid places where there's lots of smokers. This will help a lot.
I would say that one of the easiest ways to quit is to try NLP (neuro linguistic programming). It eradicates the usual problems that are associated with quitting smoking such as cravings, short temper, hunger and weight gain. You can find out more here: http://su.pr/2vX6Ys
Look at the people you love and that love you. Then think about the difficulties smoking introduces everyday to them. Now think of the long-term problems you will cause the people you love.
If you can't see these, you need to quit more than ever.
A few people in my family have had ENORMOUS success with Chantix. The only thing they didnt like were the weird dreams, but they quit. They said they would have never been able to do it without the Chantix.
The cold turkey answers are correct. I would add one thing, though, that worked for me. Quit on vacation. For me, smoking was as much about routine as anything. Go do something out of your routine for a week, get away, and one you get in the car or arrive at the airport, say goodbye to cigarettes. It will be toughest when you get back home and into your routine, but by that point you've already been tobacco-free for a week, and that's a big psychological barrier.
I have to agree with Richard about quitting smoking on vacation. The first few days totally suck and are full of anxiety. Not having to deal with work during the first stages is huge. If you want to try products, check out http://www.myquitsmokingdiary.com. They have a non-sell approach to listing products, what they contain, and how they work. Also, look at the withdrawal symptoms they list out so you're prepared to deal with them and understand why you're feeling the way you do when you quit.
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The answer to this question is as simple as this - you have to WANT to quit...from the very pit of your soul. Don't use words like "trying" or "hoping" to quit...be absolute about it..."I AM quitting!" Pills, patches, and electronic devices simply don't work. They're an excuse to start smoking again, if you ask me. Just have a great support group around you (people who you can turn to in a moment of weakness) and try to cut out some of the things you associate with smoking (this was hard for me as I associated it with EVERYTHING - after meals, drinking beer, hanging with friends).
You can do it! It'll be worth every bit of effort you put into it. The ability to smell and taste foods again is worth the price of admission. Additionally, you might consult this (http://tinyurl.com/d889rl) as it helped me during the process.
Good luck!